Hi T Dub here,

Getting your ex to return your phone calls may be all but impossible. Are there magical words you can use to get your ex to call you back? Well believe it or not, there are words and phrases you can use that will almost make your ex feel obligated to return your call. This is one of the biggest questions I get from my over 30,000 plus subscribers that are just like you…  trying to piece their  relationship back together. But there is a “WARNING”…..

In the Magic Of Making Up, I present an overall strategy. If you apply this method by itself, without an ‘total’ plan or strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.  Rebound relationships require  some planning.

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Things That Should’nt Be Said…Warning Number One!

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Before we move into the actual words, let us check into what message almost NEVER works…and worse yet…Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.

These usually fall into two categories…

·     The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

“John, please, please call me. This is the third time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”

·     And the EMERGENCY-

“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you are able to see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won’t go on and on…

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

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Two of the most powerful forces in the human brain are…

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here is the BIG SECRET! As you combine the two, you have a formula that WILL work ‘magic’. So…Let’s look at what you are able to say that works almost EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone of voice:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Did you catch how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John won’t be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good since it’s a positive message.

Now…Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.  It can be any little thing…but needs to be credible.

But more significantly…

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Warning Number Two!

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Please have an underlying strategy like I describe in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. Without completely thinking this through and not having a strategy, you can cause more ill will and damage than you would cause good. It needs to be addressed correctly. Again, rebound relationships are a serious matter that requires a little effort.

So what I’m saying is …..by thinking through what you do before, during and after you get them to call you back is MUCH MORE important than the actual call back you’ll be receiving from them.

I hope this is starting to add up for you. The main thing here is to get a PLAN!

Rooting For You,

T Dub