What are some tips to healing a broken heart?

December 29, 2009
healing a broken heart
–complicated me;* asked:


Okay this all started last night when my boyfriend for a year and a month told me that he had been cheating on me for the past five months. And today he started major trippin and trying to blame everything on me because everytime he tried to see me i couldnt becuase where ever i was some body’s mother was at home and i wasnt even trying to risk getting in trouble. And i try to work things out with him and ask him to end whatever relationship he has with this other girl but he says no. So he makes up this crazy exsuse to break up, im not to upset but i am so hurt. I am trying to think of other things but it’s just so hard becuase i’m so used to him either calling or txting me. Plz give me some tips or advice.

Angel
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Need help healing a broken heart. ASAP please?

December 29, 2009
healing a broken heart
Marin! asked:


one of my bestfriends just got dumped by the girl of his dreams like 2 days ago and now all he does is mope and complain abpout how life has no meaning without her and how he might as well kill himself and i dont know what to say to him tomake him feel better, got any suggestions or advice please and thank u

Adolph
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Advice on relationship problem please?

December 26, 2009
relationship problem advice
Latrice s Kisses asked:


ok now my BF claims i have jealousy problem wit his x but hes constantly around his X and he says he has no feelings for him at all he cant help it she comes around him but im still having doubts that he still has feelings for her cuz ive read the myspace messages hes wrote her and im still trying to reassure myself hes not lying like he messages her and i know he still cares for her and they talk on the phone he messages her stuff and even though he says hedon’tt want to be around her hes messages say whydon’tt you ever speak to me when you walk by and if hedidn’tt want her to speak with him he coudve been told her hedidn’tt want to talk to her or want nothing to do with her like i understand his side but he says imoverreactingg and jealousy and when i day it hurts he still does these things he says im blowing it up. And idon’tt think he understands me when i say ifYouu want nothing to do with her tell her butobviouslyy youhaven’tt and he says i do the same thing talk to boys but the thing is ididn’tt kiss that boy in front of you face ididn’tt break up with you for that boy once upon a time and idon’tt constantly play withthatt boy in you face.

so tell me cause idon’tt know!

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Any advice plz, Relationship problem?

December 23, 2009
relationship problem advice
flirtz1984 asked:


Ok so I am totally in love with my fiance and I am 23 but lately i have been feeling like i want a different life. For most of my life i have played the adult role, I mean like 35 year old role lol, long relationships, not going out very much dealing with life and its many downs and not as man ups and so on but now that i am seeing that i am getting older and want to get married and have kids in 2-3 years, I am so desperate to lead a more carefree fun lifestyle, that i havent had since i was 16, also we arent having enough *** and passion and he is just cool with whatever and i have been dreaming about other guys and wanting more passion, any advice on both subjects

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Need advice about relationship problem?

December 21, 2009
relationship problem advice
eggshell134 asked:


My boyfriend and I both work, so we don’t get to spend as much time together as we would like to. The problem is that lately I have been getting increasingly frustrated with his schedule at work. It seems like every time we make any kind of plans he is having to break them at the last minute because of his job asking him to work. I try not to say much about it because I don’t want to seem demanding or pushy. He even asked me the other night if I was frustrated by his work situation, to which I responded yes. He then told me that I was “being awfully nonchalant” about it. I responded by telling him that I knew that he had to do what he had to do and I didn’t expect him to quit his job for me or anything like that. But even in telling him that deep down I was still angry. How should I handle this without starting an argument? I feel like it’s hurting our relationship at a time where it should be growing. I feel so bad for being resentful and angry at him, but not sure how else to feel.
Let me just add, serious answers only please. No silly and childish responses. I know he has a job to do, I didn’t ask him not to work. And for the poster who said that the question is too long if the question is too long for you to comprehend then please leave it to the people who are mature enough to be able to read it and understand. To everyone else your answers are very much appreciated!

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I NEEED ADVICE. RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM?

December 19, 2009
relationship problem advice
Louise M asked:


Recently i have changed my whole group of friends from popular people to what many people would call geeks. They are alot nicer to be around and i feel like i can be myself whilst with them but my problem is that i have kinda fell for one of them. He knows i like him but doesnt like me in that way and all his friends seem to like me but i dont like them in that way. He says i am gawjus a really nice person with a great personality and will probably regret not going with me later on, he likes this other girl who ( no offence ) is chubby, and backstabs everyone and uses boys for a shag ( all his friends ) she even tied a boys shoe laces together and pushed him down the stairs and for some reason he said to me him and her couldnt be together because it is complicated but she goes with anyone so i keep wondering what is complicated.
The strange thing is after all this and even him knowing i like him wee still really get on and hang around at school and talk constantly on msn … We are always toy fighting or winding each up other and he normally holds my hands not noticing he does it and when i asked him if he has ever been with anyone he said no. I really want to get over him and just see him as a friend but how can i do this when i enjoy being with him so much and knowing i dont have a chance hurts so much.
i have also just found out that he is a jahova witness could this have anything to do with anything

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I’m going through a relationship problem, any ladies want to give me advice?

December 14, 2009
relationship problem advice
unek1 asked:


I feel lonely and stress out at night, I need a hones lady friend to talk to.

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I NEEED ADVICE. RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM?

December 10, 2009
relationship problem advice
Louise M asked:


Recently i have changed my whole group of friends from popular people to what many people would call geeks. They are alot nicer to be around and i feel like i can be myself whilst with them but my problem is that i have kinda fell for one of them. He knows i like him but doesnt like me in that way and all his friends seem to like me but i dont like them in that way. He says i am gawjus a really nice person with a great personality and will probably regret not going with me later on, he likes this other girl who ( no offence ) is chubby, and backstabs everyone and uses boys for a shag ( all his friends ) she even tied a boys shoe laces together and pushed him down the stairs and for some reason he said to me him and her couldnt be together because it is complicated but she goes with anyone so i keep wondering what is complicated.
The strange thing is after all this and even him knowing i like him wee still really get on and hang around at school and talk constantly on msn … We are always toy fighting or winding each up other and he normally holds my hands not noticing he does it and when i asked him if he has ever been with anyone he said no. I really want to get over him and just see him as a friend but how can i do this when i enjoy being with him so much and knowing i dont have a chance hurts so much.
i have also just found out that he is a jahova witness could this have anything to do with anything

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need some advice. relationship problem?

December 7, 2009
relationship problem advice
carl asked:


Hi i just wanted some help from u guys.. i met this girl late june at a party.. we got a long well the following week we had a long chat at an ice cream parlour, a few days later we went for a movie together.. we loved each others company so much,, then on july 28th at 11:48pm she sms’d me that she likes me.. i said that i to like her.. she called me regularly in the following days… a few weeks later she sms’d me telling that she loves me and that i am her bf ..she said that at this age we need to think for the future and that its not for fun to be in a relationship.. then on august 8th she had called me over to her work area in college we had a chat for a while .. she looked dull she later told me that her parents are looking out for a guy for her and that she is not sure how long we can hang togetter.. i was shattered… later that nite she said that everything will be alrigth and that we need to have faith..sshe wanted me to meet her parents. thw following weeks she started acting strangly with me.. she used to ask me if every one in college knew abt out relationship and when i said yes she would be happy then the next week would say things like ” are we dating ? ” , i started going crazy by the way she was behaving .. i used to message a lot… to know the truth she then said that i need some space.. i backed out a bit… then once nite she said that we can only be friends our family and lifestyle dont match i was devastated.. i kept away she messaged the next3 days saying sorry and stuff that she should not have said all tht.. a few days later i called her and expressed how i felt abt her.. for a few days she was good to me then it went back to her moody nature.. she acted very indifferent on the phone .. never talke abt meeting up over weekends.. i kept away then after a few days she would sms/call me .. say like lets catch up.. sms me if i was alright … this weeks she’s back to her moody nature …
a few days ago i found out through a common friends that she had said that she was feeling lonely and that she was willing to have a love marraige if her parents we ok with the guy…am still in col will have to get a job next semester when i graduate….. need some help..
am feeling low ..

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I need a serious advice. Relationship problem here?

December 4, 2009
relationship problem advice
misscoyote asked:


My partner has trouble communicating with me and I can’t seem to understand why my partner don’t like to open up. Too many secrets… and it is starting to take a toll on how I feel about this relationship. What should I do to deal with this situation? My partner doesn’t like to talk about personal stuffs and this have been happening for almost 2 years now. I’m quite losing my patience. What should I do?

I’d greatly appreciate serious and sensible answers. Non-sense answers not need to continue. thanks.
thanks for the good responses. but what adds to my question is, i’ve tried to talk and been patient asking the truth but answers don’t come out. i want to know a proper approach how should i talk or ask? my partner tends to withdraw and it hurts me.

Bennie

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