When we first started going out everything was great, we enjoyed each others company, and i couldn’thave been happier with my life.

we both came from broken homes. and we found comfort in each others company and life experiences.

Well about a month into the relationship, i get robbed/strong armed by 5 gangsters they stole all my money and all of my paintball Equipment in a parking lot, im talking $1000s in equiptment + cash . I became an emotional wreck, i was afraid to leave my house. My girlfriend saw my fear as a weakness and said i was weak and started saying that she felt like she “wore the pants” in the relationship. Then i find out that she cheated on me twice within the same week with 2 different guys from her school. i confront her about it and she say that im not the guy she fell in love with because ever since i got robbed she didn’t feel as though i was manly enough for her and that she didnt feel like i could ever protect her.

about a week passes and she admits that she was wrong that that she still want to be with me. everything has been good for nearly a year and a half now, a minor argument here and there but nothing big.

but recently my girlfriends father got married to his girlfriend, who is a terrible gold digger. everyone in his family openly doesnt like her and she treats my girlfriend like a maid.

the problem wasnt so much that they got married, but more the fact that her father didnt tell anyone on his side of the family that they were getting married. However everyone on his girlfriends side of the family was invited to the wedding.

so here my girlfriend is upset that her own father couldnt even tell his own daughter that he was getting married.

the worst part was that my girlfriend had overheard them making wedding plans, so the whole family was waiting on him to have the guts to tell them , but he never did.

i know long confusing story, but heres where my current problem starts….

My girlfriend is very upset and she wants my advice. i tell her she needs to confront her father and tell him exactly how she feels.

she never confronted him and acts like she isnt mad at him. so again when she asked for advice, i told her the same thing, and once again she didnt listen.

so.. after the millionth time i still listen to her problem, but instead of sayiong the same thing, i tell her that she needs to figure it out on her own if she wants things to change.

a few days after the conversation, she says she had made new friends at school and would like to go to the football game with them.
I say ok, trying to be supportive of her.

so i get off work and i go to pick her up from the football game, whe tells me that one of her new friends burst into tears because he liked her and was jealous because other guys talked to her.

so im thinking to myself here we go again with boy drama…

she says its no big deal and that she would never hurt me again.

so then week goes by and she says she want to spend saturday with her new friend, im like ok whatever she needs some room for other friends i guess.

all saturday she doesnt call me (i had to call her and 1 in the morning sunday) and i find out that she’s spending the night.

im like ok, but it would have been nice if she had called, because i was worried about her being out so late (her dad usually wants her home by 9)

so then sunday i call her up ask what her plans were for the day, she said: im going to spend the day with my new friend.

once again im fine with it, (her new friend is a girl)

i call her sunday night when she comes home. i ask her if she had fun etc.

then all of a sudden she gets really mad saying that i dont support her like her friends do and that she needs room to be herself.

ME: “i didnt stop you from going out with your friends”

Her: ” you are getting mad at me for having friends”

ME: ” what are you talking about? i was %100 behind you going out with your friends”

Her: “No you are mad that i didnt spend the time with you ”

me: “no i wasnt mad and i dont know what you are talking about”

Her: “We need a break , because i need room to find out who i am”

This came out of NOWHERE

and now she threatens to break up with me permanently when ever i want to talk about it .

I am so confused, because i litterally didnt do anything

I dont exaclty know what to do now, i just lost my best friend/ girlfriend and i cant find closure because i dont know what happend and she wont tell me, i mean we’ve bben together for nearly 2 year and all of a sudden she breaks up with me without any reason and wont say a word to me other than: “if you bring up anything about me breaking up with you im leaving you forever and i will never get back with you”.

i dont
..i dont know what to do

i love her , but its seems like some kind of crazy dream

we wernt fighting, or anything and she breaks up with me after a weekend out with friends

advice?

Jorge