Jack asked:


So my ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We stopped talking for a week or so . I called her and said hey just wanted to see how you were doing. Busy, had to go see her dad. About maybe an hour or two hours later , she texts me with “hey” , we texted a little bit here and there and than I said “Well hey i’m going study, but i’ll call you in the future to see how your doing” which she said “ok fine” . About 4 or 5 hours ago , she calls me and I don’t pick up . She texts me and says “hey gimme a call when your free”. I wait 15 minutes and call her , we talk about 7 or 8 mins and than she says “hey i have to go , but do you want me to call you later?” and i said “well uhm….” and without even saying yes , she says “i’ll call you later tonight!” . I wait about an hour , and i say i’m going to bed but lets talk tomorrow. To which she responds , about an hour later, ok ok nite.
I would like to apologise for my poor grammar btw, just trying to get a feel for it from other people.
I should also add that initially she wanted a break because she felt I wasn’t trust able (and I gotta admit , I did some not so nice things) . I rebuttal by saying to her “well if we’re going take a break , i’m just going break up and meet other girls” . Not my brightest moment , but nonetheless getting straight to the point. (After all , a break is a breakup , am I right?) About 2 weeks later , I wrote her apology letter saying that I have thought about my behavior and that yeah , I wasn’t trust able but losing her wasn’t worth lying to her about many things. So now we are up to present and the question is my current dilemma.