what should i do to get my ex bf back and we are in no more contacts?

December 28, 2009
how to get back with my ex
anonymous asked:


Guyz i just wanna tel u that…i met a guy through net and we had a nice relation for a year about…..

And he asked me will u marry me 2-3 times…but i said ” i don’t know ” but he never left me…he was still with me…

And at the same time he also had a friend(a girl) on net…that girl also likes him a lot…and she asked my bf to either talk to her or to me….

But inspite of this i never asked my bf to stop talking to her..she even used to cry in front of him…and pretends to be very sweet…

Few months back…my Bf said he is leaving me…because i m not giving commitment to him…then i accepted my mistake and beg to him not to leave me…i said i am ready to tell my parents about us…i want to marry you if my parents agree for us but i wont run if my parents doesn’t get agree for our marriage…i cried whole day whole night…i begged him so much not to leave me..but it was of no use….

he simple said that now his feelings for me are over and its of no use to tell my parents….

He said that that girl is even ready to run away if her parents wont allow for their marriage…she even added my bf’s family members on orkut also…and bf also added her friends…
he left me about a month ago…he changed his all phone no….he deleted me and then ignored me from the orkut and locked his all albums and scrapbook…now i have no contacts with him…he don’t even visit my profile also…he don’t even bother to know about me…what should i do i am not getting this….and that girl is also
continuously trying her best to get my bf….

please tell me me how can i be in contact with him again….we have just 2 common net friends…i seriously want him back in my life again….but when he is not even in contact i cant do something like making him jealous or to have my complete makeover….should i send him messages through our common friends or not…

tell me what should i do…knowing that he is not in contact…and we our in different cities….

Lorenzo

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Song about a guy that healed a girl’s broken heart?

December 11, 2009
healing a broken heart
Shelly P asked:


I have gone through a lot of heartbreak recently. Last weekend I called my best guy friend (who I haven’t talked to in a long time) and realized that he immediately made me feel better and healed my broken heart. I also realized he was a much better guy for me and started to fall for him a little.

Do you know any songs that would kind of describe that? I would prefer slower songs… Thanks!

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Should I get back together with my ex? (He’s being such a jerk!)?

December 6, 2009
how to get back with my ex
B asked:


Hello.

I need some help. I was with my ex for a few years. We had a long distance relationship and we sort of drifted apart. I still care for him and we’re talking about meeting up again for the first time since our last meeting which was eight months ago.

Trouble is, he doesn’t treat me at all kind or show me any care or affection. You may ask why I continue to hang on, it’s because I still remember the good times and he used to love me a lot. I cancelled seeing him a couple times during the last few months we were a couple because we were fighting a lot and he was being rude to me.

Basically it was like chicken and egg, his disappointment led to him being mean and angry. His being mean and angry led to our not getting along.

We even have had intimacy through webcam and phone but even with both of those he still isn’t nice.

He basically just expects me to go visit him and we’ll ‘take it in baby steps’ but I don’t feel motivated to see him unless he shows me some true care or concern.

It’s going around and around. I want to forget him sometimes because he treats me like noone special at all and doesn’t even ask how I’m doing.

What should I do? Thanks.
He actually told me “You have to work on me caring for you again”.

Is this something that is to be expected from someone who feels angry that I cancelled a couple of our last planned meetings??

T Harper

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Is a relationship worth saving when you have invested a lot of time and the one you love is on drugs or should?

December 5, 2009
saving a relationship
djgspeedbug asked:


you leave that person alone

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What are some ways to heal a broken heart?

November 5, 2009
healing a broken heart
*freedom* asked:


I have been going through a painful situation lately. I thought this guy I’ve been going out with loved me like I loved him. But I’ve discovered that I was very mistaken. He doesn’t feel love for me at all – only physical attraction. He pursued me in the beginning and I fell for him real hard. I had hoped that our relationship would grow, but it hasn’t. And now I find out that there are other girls that he has been seeing behind my back. I broke up with him, and he wants me to reconsider and give him another chance but I don’t want to get hurt by him again…ever. It has been pure hell, and while I still love him a lot, his insensitivity and betrayal have really affected our relationship and things are never going to be the same again. I don’t want him back. But what are some ways to heal my heart from this pain and get over him?

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Is it possible to get back with a ex who hates you?

November 5, 2009
how to get back with my ex
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I cheated on him about 2 months ago, i really liked him a lot though.
I told him the truth(that i kissed another guy) , because it was better me telling him then him finding out from others. After it he was really mad, and his friend told me he was heartbroken. He now ‘likes’ this girl, he doesn’t know her well, but everybody thinks she is a horrible girl! I still really like him, and this weekend he will be at a party I’m at, I really like him so much! and i want to get back with him, but is it possible, and if so HOW?

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Having a relationship problem. Need advice?

October 26, 2009
relationship problem advice
pammy asked:


My partner and I have been together for 4 years. We have bought a house together, have respective kids and we have built a decent life. We are having relationship problems.
1. We aren’t able to spend enough time together. We can’t do a lot to fix this because the kids always come first and we knew it would be that way. I now have to live an hour away so that my kids can go to a particular school. She stayed in the home we bought because her kid needed to stay and not have any changes.
2. The time we have together we don’t enjoy because of much of the stress that our kids put us through. She is always stressed, sad and slightly paranoid. She tries to read between the lines to much and puts stress into her own life.
We are 38 (me) and 47 (her) and immaturity is not the problem. These are real problems that I don’t know how to solve.
Any ideas?

Dave
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My ex wants us to get back togeher. How do I explain that I fell in love with her dress size and her?

September 22, 2009
how to get back with my ex
Occulty the Bastard asked:


…body-fat-to-muscle ratio, and that she’s got a LOT of work to do if she’s going to have a shot with me again?

Thanks for helping me out with this. I really don’t want to hurt her feelings when I drop the news on her.

It’s not that I’m ruling out getting back together with her…It’s just that she’s going to have to make some MAJOR adjustments, and it’s going to take probably several months before I know for sure whether we’re going to work out or not…

-Occulty
(((Scuzzy))) Have you been drinking agian?

Royce

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Beginning Again – A milestone on the divorce recovery journey

September 19, 2009
Paramaryl asked:


Bodett Like fire, hope is a hungry thing. I’m learning that you have to tend and feed hope vigilantly. It only takes one inattentive moment for it to burn out, and when hope is extinguished, serenity is overtaken by the darkness. Healing a broken heart also takes a lot of conscious effort across the intellectual, spiritual and practical levels. It’s not always a process that one can simply leave to the passage of time to take care of. And sometimes, all the logic and intellectual …

Clyde

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Having a relationship problem. Need advice?

August 18, 2009
relationship problem advice
pammy asked:


My partner and I have been together for 4 years. We have bought a house together, have respective kids and we have built a decent life. We are having relationship problems.
1. We aren’t able to spend enough time together. We can’t do a lot to fix this because the kids always come first and we knew it would be that way. I now have to live an hour away so that my kids can go to a particular school. She stayed in the home we bought because her kid needed to stay and not have any changes.
2. The time we have together we don’t enjoy because of much of the stress that our kids put us through. She is always stressed, sad and slightly paranoid. She tries to read between the lines to much and puts stress into her own life.
We are 38 (me) and 47 (her) and immaturity is not the problem. These are real problems that I don’t know how to solve.
Any ideas?

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