mango asked:
well i hve a boyfrnd since last 3 yrs..we had a lovely realtionship..though this last 1 year we lived in togethr..we had lots of fights..various reasons..then he went back to his home town to study further..so coz of long distance,we faced communication gap..i was really busy with work..now after some time he tells him he doesnt feel anything.and wants to end the relationship.basically he thinks that i will not be able to adjust after marriage.though i have a crazy life (stay alone in a metro city nd work..nd chill ) i believe in myself..i have always been strong..and he is the conservative type..we do talk evryday.. but its me who is trying to sort out the problems.i really want to make him believe that i can adjust and can do anything for him..he thinks that if he will talk to me rudely…il forget evrything..which is not true..i am not able to concentrate on anything..il meet him for a few hours sometime in september.but with ph conversations..wht do i say,i just dnt undrstand…?
Brock
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Posted in Singles & Dating
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Tagged Chill, Communication Gap, Conservative Type, Conversations, Crazy Life, Evrything, Gap, Long Distance, Marriage, Metro City, Realtionship, Relationship Help
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princejames2020 asked:
OK i am a senior and the girl i am interested in is a junior. We have never talked. recently she approached my friends in a class they have together and told them she thought I was cute, she must have known that they would relay this info to me. Well everyone found out and made a big deal about it, so I didnt talk to her about it. Now seniors have graduated, so I wont bump into her anymore. Was there a reason that she told my friends this, I cant help but think she wants me to initiate the conversation. Also, If i were to use AIM (i have her screenname) how would the conversation go, i wouldnt wnat it to get awkward. Thanks for the help.
Simon
Queenie asked:
I’ve been seeing this guy for several months now, at first casually and then more serious. We are good for a week and then things get weird the next week. Last wknd we had plans for Saturday night, well he tells me 8:45 first and then some friends showed up. So, it got later and later and then he texts me and says just come over. I decided not to since now it was 12:45 a.m. The next day he tells me how sorry he is and he loves me, blah, blah. It seems like he apologizing all the time for his behavior. I don’t say much about what he does, other than just kind of backing off and being silently mad. Obviously he feels the need to apologize without me even saying anything. I have told him that maybe we shouldn’t see eachother anymore and then he tells me he loves me and thats not what he wants. He is constantly putting me on the back burner and then apologizing for it. He wants me when its right for him and the rest of the time I feel like I am chasing him. I **** that feeling.
Merle
Coll123abc_:] asked:
Ok im 14 and me and my girlfriend have been dating for some months, but she left to north carolina in july and coming back on on Aug 30th (i live in Cali). Problem i have and makes me sad is tht i waited more than a month to see her and i got curious why she wouldnt talk to me yesterday and i asked her friend and she told me she cant be with me cuz she’ll get grounded for having a boyfriend and i cant see her anymore… so can i have advice what i can do that might help… cuz its really a dumb reason to not be together… *sigh*…
i talked to her aunt also cuz i didnt know who else she said we can be friends but the thing is i dont wanna be friends i love her ._.
Marlin
princejames2020 asked:
OK i am a senior and the girl i am interested in is a junior. We have never talked. recently she approached my friends in a class they have together and told them she thought I was cute, she must have known that they would relay this info to me. Well everyone found out and made a big deal about it, so I didnt talk to her about it. Now seniors have graduated, so I wont bump into her anymore. Was there a reason that she told my friends this, I cant help but think she wants me to initiate the conversation. Also, If i were to use AIM (i have her screenname) how would the conversation go, i wouldnt wnat it to get awkward. Thanks for the help.
Chunk K asked:
my g/f and i have not been on good terms latly at all. we have only been together about 2 months but before that we were together for nearly a year. we broke up for about 4 months and things were total hell between us. we hated eachother and nothing seemed to make it better until i got a new g/f and she ammediatly wanted me back. so we ended up back together but things are misserable. we both want this relationship to work out but i have no idea how to make things work. can anyone think of a way that could make things better? i dont know what to do i want to be able to talk to her today and make things better but she is so moody and that is one of our biggest problems. also she doesnt like that i smoke which brings problems. she thinks that *** just gives us so many problems and that if we do it less things will get better. i dont understand that at all and no matter what that doesnt change but if someone can agree with her and tell me how i can stop that. just any advice please.
Raul
Alpha Wolf asked:
My gf (fiancee) and I have been together for almost 11 months and we are both in our mid-20s. I am currently away for school for a month and I am very worried what she is doing while I am not there. We had a conversation this past weekend about this and she said that I have nothing to worry about. But something in the back of my head is telling me that something is not right….I am not sure if it is because I am away or what…what should I think or do about this??? Please help!
Allan
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