Relationship Problem.advice please?

December 29, 2009
relationship problem advice
It’s Me..100% asked:


I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for 3 years now and are very much in love. The problem is that he doesn’t like it if I have any male friends..not even one. He gets really upset about it. I asked him if he trusts me and he said yes. He said that he doesnt trust the males that I associate with. He says that most males will not hang out with a female unless they are attracted to her or they like her. I kinda understand because I would not like him talking to other females but these guys were seriously just friends..I have stopped associating with males because it upsets him so much and he’s agree’d not to associate with other females…but I feel like its wrong to stop talking to my friends when they havent done any wrong to me or him..what shoud I do?
Guy’s I’d like to hear your opinions too…thanks

Reuben
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Advice on relationship problem please?

December 26, 2009
relationship problem advice
Latrice s Kisses asked:


ok now my BF claims i have jealousy problem wit his x but hes constantly around his X and he says he has no feelings for him at all he cant help it she comes around him but im still having doubts that he still has feelings for her cuz ive read the myspace messages hes wrote her and im still trying to reassure myself hes not lying like he messages her and i know he still cares for her and they talk on the phone he messages her stuff and even though he says hedon’tt want to be around her hes messages say whydon’tt you ever speak to me when you walk by and if hedidn’tt want her to speak with him he coudve been told her hedidn’tt want to talk to her or want nothing to do with her like i understand his side but he says imoverreactingg and jealousy and when i day it hurts he still does these things he says im blowing it up. And idon’tt think he understands me when i say ifYouu want nothing to do with her tell her butobviouslyy youhaven’tt and he says i do the same thing talk to boys but the thing is ididn’tt kiss that boy in front of you face ididn’tt break up with you for that boy once upon a time and idon’tt constantly play withthatt boy in you face.

so tell me cause idon’tt know!

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Major relationship problem, advice needed?

December 25, 2009
relationship problem advice
Jordo656 asked:


So my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and things were going well with the exception of a couple arguments and stuff here and there.
My big problem is recently I suspected that she had been messing around on me or at least texting and talking to this one guy who would message her at like 2am seeing what she was up to and asking to hang out. They are also friends with some of the same people too and probly hang out sometimes (I have never met this guy)
My issue now is that I found out about this is a bad way (invasion of privacy, I read her texts) So I’m not sure if that’s just as bad to do.
I want to confront her and tell her I know, and ask what’s really going on, but should I?
This is driving me crazy, please please help.

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Any advice plz, Relationship problem?

December 23, 2009
relationship problem advice
flirtz1984 asked:


Ok so I am totally in love with my fiance and I am 23 but lately i have been feeling like i want a different life. For most of my life i have played the adult role, I mean like 35 year old role lol, long relationships, not going out very much dealing with life and its many downs and not as man ups and so on but now that i am seeing that i am getting older and want to get married and have kids in 2-3 years, I am so desperate to lead a more carefree fun lifestyle, that i havent had since i was 16, also we arent having enough *** and passion and he is just cool with whatever and i have been dreaming about other guys and wanting more passion, any advice on both subjects

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Relationship Problem – Need Advice?

December 23, 2009
relationship problem advice
overlook asked:


I’m a 23 year old male who has been dating a girl for around a year. The problem is she asks if I’m ready to be engaged repeatedly and gets upset if I say I’m not ready yet. She doesn’t understand why, If I do love her, why I won’t ask her to be my wife. I do, in fact, want to marry her eventually. It’s getting really frustrating though. Who’s right here? What do I tell her? I need help.

Julius
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So I’ve Got A Relationship Problem.Any Advice?

December 22, 2009
relationship problem advice
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So, me && this person have been talking for over 2 months now (talking like “talking talking” as in we might date.) We DO wanna be together; the person I’m talking to has said they do wanna be with me, so I’m not worried about that. My only problem is that they have not asked me to be their girlfriend yet, && we’ve been talking for a good minute now. I’ve asked them if they wanna continue to talk through the summer, && they said “yeah”. But I don’t know if we’re ever gonna be together OFFICIALLY; so I guess what I wanna know is should I ask them straight up where we’re headed. Part of me wants to ask them that, but the other part of me is scared that asking them that question might scare them away && they might stop talking to me; && I don’t want that to happen. I know for a fact that they DO care about me && love me && vice-versa, but I’m afraid they won’t ever ask me to be their girlfriend; so what should I do? Thanks in advance for your opinions && advice.

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Need advice about relationship problem?

December 21, 2009
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eggshell134 asked:


My boyfriend and I both work, so we don’t get to spend as much time together as we would like to. The problem is that lately I have been getting increasingly frustrated with his schedule at work. It seems like every time we make any kind of plans he is having to break them at the last minute because of his job asking him to work. I try not to say much about it because I don’t want to seem demanding or pushy. He even asked me the other night if I was frustrated by his work situation, to which I responded yes. He then told me that I was “being awfully nonchalant” about it. I responded by telling him that I knew that he had to do what he had to do and I didn’t expect him to quit his job for me or anything like that. But even in telling him that deep down I was still angry. How should I handle this without starting an argument? I feel like it’s hurting our relationship at a time where it should be growing. I feel so bad for being resentful and angry at him, but not sure how else to feel.
Let me just add, serious answers only please. No silly and childish responses. I know he has a job to do, I didn’t ask him not to work. And for the poster who said that the question is too long if the question is too long for you to comprehend then please leave it to the people who are mature enough to be able to read it and understand. To everyone else your answers are very much appreciated!

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relationship problem advice needed?

December 20, 2009
relationship problem advice
stinkers_uk asked:


i met a guy months ago and he is far away. he told me right from day 1 that he is petrified of travelling, trains planes etc. so I have been doing all the running. even though it has been very tough!

he has asked me to move in with him but i am worried. he was supposed to come up and stay and hasn’t because he said he couldn’t afford to come. making excuses. i wanted him to come to show his commitment and to see how we all get on as a family. But he’s saying that if i am to move in we will need all the money we can get hold of until we’re sorted out. i know he has a fear and gets panic attacks but can’t he even try???

I am worried that he is taking the mick out of me, i have been hurt in the past and left standing…although now i have kids to put first. if he doesn’t come up here how can we test the water?? we might not get on living together. and to be honest how well can you know someone when you see them once a week? and what if he hasn’t really got a fear or travalling and i’m a gullible idiot! he could be using me.

what do you reckon?? am i being selfish. we are made for each other (at face value). he tells me he loves me all the time and he talks about our future together etc etc But i can’t halp being suspicious. my last relationship was violent and he was a control freak. so i am a little scared.

not all men are losers…right??
he will lose his house as well if i don’t move in, he hasn’t told me that but i know he can’t afford it single handed. Theres no prob with that he can move somewhere else (if he can get the bond together) but it is in a great location and the schools are fantastic. If I don’t do it now then that means when we do move in later on we’ll have to completely start a fresh. Including saving up a bond etc and we more than likely won’t beable to afford to get back into the area. and we’ll have to settle for some cheap dodgy area.

And yes he has met the kids and they are all ok with each other. He has kids of his own so he’s not a weirdo or anything. he also has had long relationships so he’s not after a bit of skirt. but the prob is he wants his cake and to eat it. he’s very ‘us’ orientated but whether its just a front i don’t know. It’s a huge gamble!! i can move back though as long as I keep the keys for my old place. so i have a leeway of a couple of weeks.

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I NEEED ADVICE. RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM?

December 19, 2009
relationship problem advice
Louise M asked:


Recently i have changed my whole group of friends from popular people to what many people would call geeks. They are alot nicer to be around and i feel like i can be myself whilst with them but my problem is that i have kinda fell for one of them. He knows i like him but doesnt like me in that way and all his friends seem to like me but i dont like them in that way. He says i am gawjus a really nice person with a great personality and will probably regret not going with me later on, he likes this other girl who ( no offence ) is chubby, and backstabs everyone and uses boys for a shag ( all his friends ) she even tied a boys shoe laces together and pushed him down the stairs and for some reason he said to me him and her couldnt be together because it is complicated but she goes with anyone so i keep wondering what is complicated.
The strange thing is after all this and even him knowing i like him wee still really get on and hang around at school and talk constantly on msn … We are always toy fighting or winding each up other and he normally holds my hands not noticing he does it and when i asked him if he has ever been with anyone he said no. I really want to get over him and just see him as a friend but how can i do this when i enjoy being with him so much and knowing i dont have a chance hurts so much.
i have also just found out that he is a jahova witness could this have anything to do with anything

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I need advice on a relationship problem?

December 16, 2009
relationship problem advice
Jess asked:


So there is a guy i go to school with, he has a girlfriend and has been dating her six months. lately she has been lien to him and being a jerk to him, well after a long time we finally told each other we liked each other. He says im nicer and sweeter then his girlfriend and i like him alot and he likes me too. We are going to hang out and get to know each other more. Should i push the issue and say if you really like me you will dump her. or something along those lines? Advice from anyone would help

Castillo
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